Posts Tagged ‘fulfillment’

SOS Episode #26:…And The Rest Is History: Debunking The Myth Of Getting Discovered (Part 5 of 7)

Thursday, June 19th, 2008

Performing artists, songwriters, and aspiring musicians are usually given the same piece of sage advice: to get yourself or put your work out there” where it can be discovered. This often implies pounding pavement–moving to a big city, booking a lot of rough gigs, networking like a monster, or knocking on the proverbial door of opportunity until someone–an agent, an executive, or a “talent scout” (do those still exist?)–discovers you.

The familiar story always ends the same way: Once you get discovered–once some powerful, visionary manager or mogul is exposed to your talent*, they will make you a big star and the rest will be history…the only problem is that the eternal hope at the root of this “discovery myth” is built on rumor, not fact. How many success stories are really that simple?

Even more importantly, expecting to be discovered may lead to another unintentional problem–the common trap of leaving your center in hope of attracting someone else’s attention and admiration. Once an artist gets hooked on the dream of getting discovered, they become vulnerable to superficial flattery, neediness, and a host of manipulations. This desperate need for external recognition is so common in some industry circles that it seems completely natural–an industry standard.

However, there are alternatives: instead of perpetually seeking to be discovered, you can invest your energy into a lifelong pursuit of Self-discovery. Living with a deep curiosity about who you are and who you are becoming is a joyous journey that strengthens an artist’s resolve, deepens self-expression, and, paradoxically, attracts more attention from potential business contacts and musical collaborators.

Tune in to this Soul of Songwriting episode to learn from some of the hard lessons and foibles that have taken many a musician (including our host) down many a wrong path. Discover what treasures lie calmly in waiting once the need to be discovered is redirected into a search for Self-discovery. This is part five of the “Seven Common Myths of Musicianship and the Creative Process” series.

*For more thoughts on talent, listen to SOS Episode # 21: “Just The Way You Are: Debunking The Myth Of Talent.”

 
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SOS Episode #9: Beyond Category: Discovering Your Musical Fingerprint

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

Whether or not you are aware of it, you have a mode of expression that is totally unique to you. In order to find lasting musical fulfillment, an expressive artist has to go beyond identifying with traditional labels and categories into a more personal search for their unique, authentic musical expression-their musical fingerprint. This search is comprised of two, interdependent aspects: what you need to express and how you are naturally designed to express it. Join the conversation about how you can grow more deeply into your authentic musical Voice and the variety of gifts that await you as you get closer and closer to the heart of your own music.

 
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SOS Episode #7: The Artist’s Dilemma: Being “Sold Out” Versus “Selling Out”

Wednesday, February 6th, 2008

When a show is filled to capacity, the marquis reads “Sold Out.” When an artist loses their authenticity in order to please a supposed market’s taste, we say that they’ve “sold out.” How can you “Sell Out” without “selling out?” Do we ever have to compromise our authenticity to achieve commercial success? How about achieving both? Listen in and discover your own answer to the important question: “Who am I making my music for?”

 
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