With whom do you share your music? Do you have reliable people who will support your creative process by giving you honest feedback while also understanding and respecting where you are coming from?

Who you are is inseparable from who you relate to. As social beings, we are constantly influencing and being influenced by others. By discerning who you share your art with you can more effectively direct the flow of your musical focus and learn to make the connection between the people in your life and the music that comes out of you. Your community, friends, collaborators, audience, and family members all have an influence on your music, so you might as well choose to be around people whose influence is positive and welcome.

Listen in on this episode as the link between music and relationships is explored from four distinct angles: friendship, competition, intimacy, and fantasy.

This is the second of four in the Musical Lifestyle Series of SOS podcasts.

 

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Do you have an ultimate musical goal? How will you know if you have arrived at it? Do you think that once you reach that goal, you will be artistically fulfilled for the rest of your life?

The concepts of artistic mastery, expertise, greatness, and virtuosity are common, but not necessarily true. Musical experience, at its freest, is a journey–not a destination. Once you “arrive” at a commitment to the process of following your vision, rather than satisfying or living up to an impossible standard of excellence, you can more fully appreciate each step of the path. From this perspective, you can enjoy the adventure of your Musical Vision Quest and lay down the burden of perfectionism. 

Join this SOS episode as the belief in expertise is questioned and the practice of cultivating a beginner’s mind is celebrated. 

 

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